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Hey there,
First off – how are you feeling after completing the 5-Day Sleep Reset Challenge?
I've been getting messages all week from people who are genuinely shocked by how different they feel. One person told me, "I didn't realize how foggy my brain had been until the fog lifted."
But here's what's interesting...
I've also heard from a bunch of high achievers who said something like: "Yeah, I feel better, but I was already functioning fine on 5-6 hours. I don't really need more sleep – I've got too much to do."
If that sounds like you, we need to talk.
The High Achiever's Sleep Trap

Let me guess your story:
You're successful. You get stuff done. You've trained yourself to function on less sleep because there are deals to close, projects to finish, goals to crush.
You wear your ability to "survive on coffee and 5 hours" like a badge of honor. You might even brag about it sometimes.
You think sleep is for people who don't have big dreams.
Here's the brutal truth: You're operating at about 70% of your actual potential, and you don't even know it.
What "Functional" Sleep is Actually Costing You
You think you're fine because you can still do your job, right? You're not falling asleep at your desk or crashing your car.
But let me ask you this:
Decision-Making: How many times this week did you make a choice you later regretted? Maybe snapped at someone? Made an impulse purchase? Chose the easy option instead of the best option?

Creativity: When's the last time you had a genuinely brilliant idea? Not just a good one – a breakthrough moment that excited you?
Emotional Regulation: How's your patience been lately? Your ability to stay calm under pressure? Your capacity to really listen to the people you care about?
Physical Performance: Are you getting stronger, faster, or healthier? Or are you just... maintaining?
Here's what sleep-deprived high achievers don't realize: These aren't character flaws. They're symptoms of chronic sleep optimization.
The 70% Performance Prison
When you consistently get "adequate" sleep instead of optimized sleep, your brain makes compromises you can't even detect:
Your prefrontal cortex (decision-making center) starts running on fumes
Your hippocampus (memory formation) goes into power-saving mode
Your amygdala (emotional processing) becomes hyperactive and reactive
Your creativity networks literally can't connect properly
You adapt to this diminished state so gradually that it becomes your new normal. You think "this is just how I am" when really it's "this is how I am on suboptimal sleep."
The Real Success Stories
Want to know what separates good performers from great ones? It's not working longer hours.
Jeff Bezos famously prioritizes 8 hours of sleep because "I make better decisions, and that's worth more than the extra hour of work."
LeBron James sleeps 8-10 hours per day during the season because recovery IS performance.
Arianna Huffington literally wrote a book about how optimizing her sleep transformed her business results.
These aren't people who have time to waste. They're people who understand that peak performance requires peak recovery.
Your Performance Breakthrough Awaits
Remember how you felt on Day 5 of the challenge? That clarity, that steady energy, that sense of being fully present?
That wasn't a fluke. That was a preview of your actual potential.
Imagine if that became your baseline.
Imagine making decisions from a place of clarity instead of fog. Imagine having the emotional bandwidth to be fully present with the people who matter most. Imagine your brain firing on all cylinders instead of running in power-saving mode.
That's not fantasy. That's optimized sleep.
Here's What Happens Next
The 5-day challenge gave you the foundation. But foundations are just the beginning.
In "Sleep Reset Protocol," I show you how to:
Customize your sleep strategy for your specific schedule, stress levels, and goals
Recover from setbacks quickly when life disrupts your routine (because it will)
Advanced optimization techniques that most people never learn
Troubleshoot problems before they derail your progress
Maintain peak performance even during high-stress periods
This isn't about getting more sleep. It's about getting strategic about sleep.
A Challenge for You
Here's what I want you to do this week:
Pay attention to your performance in three areas:
Decision quality – Are you making choices you're proud of?
Emotional bandwidth – How present are you with people you care about?
Creative thinking – When do breakthrough ideas come to you?
Then ask yourself: "What would be possible if I felt this clear and energized every single day?"
That's not a hypothetical question. That's your next level calling.
Don't Settle for 70%
You didn't complete a 5-day challenge because you're the kind of person who settles for "good enough."
You did it because you're committed to becoming the best version of yourself.
Your best self is waiting on the other side of optimized sleep.
Dream big (and sleep well),
Christiana
The Oxymind Team
P.S. – I'm genuinely curious: What's the one area of your life where you'd most like to see improvement? Better decision-making? More patience with family? Increased creativity at work? Hit reply and let me know – because I guarantee better sleep will impact that area more than you think.
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Trending Mental Health News
Over 1 Billion People Worldwide Living with Mental Health Disorders, Urgent Scale-Up Needed (WHO Report)
The World Health Organization released new data today revealing that more than 1 billion people globally are affected by mental health conditions, with anxiety and depression being the most common.News Avoidance on the Rise as a Coping Mechanism for Anxiety
A Guardian investigation today explores how more people are deliberately tuning out news due to its link to heightened anxiety and mental health strain. Survey data shows this "news avoidance" trend is growing, with individuals reporting reduced stress levels after limiting exposure.Structural Brain Changes from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Confirmed in Depression Patients
New research published today in Nature demonstrates for the first time that cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) induces measurable structural changes in the brains of patients with acute depression, improving neural pathways related to emotion regulation.
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Productivity Hack: The Daily Practice
Here's what I do now when disappointment hits:
Acknowledge it: "This didn't go as planned, and I'm disappointed."
Separate control from outcome: "What parts of this were in my control vs. outside factors?"
Choose what to carry: "What serves me better—carrying this frustration or carrying the lesson?"
Reframe forward: "How does this disappointment actually prepare me for the next challenge?"
This isn't toxic positivity. It's strategic mindset management. Because in entrepreneurship, your mental state is your competitive advantage.
Your Challenge This Week: At the end of each day, ask yourself: "What am I carrying that I need to put down?" Then consciously choose what thoughts and energy you want to take into tomorrow.
Your future success might depend more on what you choose to carry than what you choose to do.
See you soon
Bolaji
The OxyMind